KIPAS

If ‘kipas’ is a necessary skill to be learnt to survive then I prefer to being myself. I am not a hardcore people-pleaser. I dunno how to show a cute face just to be accepted, respected and appreciated. Soften my voice’s tone so it sounds sexier and graceful just because pll will form opinions as you speak..well what the h***.. eventually they talk anyway. I dont follow what ppl say, but rather I more fear what Allah say. Being gediks and manje2 are not what being taught in Islam. Be good at heart, and choose your words wisely. Let ur words be kind not because to please ppl but because ur fear to Allah. Be kind to ppl not because u want something in return but it is what Allah command every human being  to do. Accepting and adapting to changes doesnt mean you have to disservice urself by shapeshifting to be liked by all. Anthing that against ur faith u must not compromise at all. Ppl can passing judgement on you, but the Final Judgement is between you and Him. Remember my frens (and to me as well), this beautiful sunny day in duniyah is a temporary, u shouldnt work hard so much to please the duniyah in fact work extra harder to please Allah because in the end only Him that matters.